It is common knowledge that men will go to great lengths to please the ladies they are interested in.
Most men act childlike when they are truly in love, and this has cost them dearly. It is not terrible to want to please a lady, but doing so excessively makes one dumb.
As a guy, you must be able to read between the lines in order to determine what is favorable and what is not.
We’re not saying you shouldn’t be romantic; it’s a good thing to be romantic, but not at the expense of yourself.
Here are the top 10 things you should never do only to please a lady, no matter how much you love her.
10. Die for her
So many men have committed suicide as a result of a lady. What’s the point when you’re ultimately dead and gone? You must live to fight another day.
9. Reject and disrespect your family because of her.
Your family is everything, and you can’t reject them because your woman doesn’t like them. It will be quite risky for you to reject your family only because of a woman.
Women can be quite manipulative, especially when they know you like them and will go to any length to keep them. Some will attempt to distance you from your family members by demonstrating how horrible they are.
If she ever abandons you, the only ones who will stand with you are your family. So, never sacrifice your family connections only to make her happy.
8. Starve yourself for her
Never give up your food for her; at the very least, share it, but giving everything to her and going hungry is not love; it is foolishness.
7. Buy her a house when you don’t have one.
Simple logic should tell you that you should build your dreams jointly, rather than favoring her and forgetting about yours. Building a house for a lady when you don’t have one for yourself is ethically wrong.
You will be sorry when she eventually dumps you and moves in with another man. Many men are still gnashing their teeth about this.
6. Being overly submissive
It’s wonderful to be lovely to your woman, but always learn to put the record straight and don’t attempt to always look weak to her and give in to all of her desires in order to please her. Women genuinely despise weak guys and would rather you to be sweet and sour.
5. Fight another man because of her
Fighting for her is pointless. Either the person beats you to a pulp and you wind up in the hospital, or you beat the person and end up in jail; either way, you lose.
Unless it is for self-defense.
4. Make a sacrifice for her sake
You should be a little selfish with yourself unless it’s absolutely necessary. You can’t be hungry just so you can send her money to purchase food or her needs. You can share what you have, but never give up everything simply to make her happy.
3. Forget your dreams
Remember that before you met her, you had your own plans and goals. Don’t give up simply because she doesn’t like what you’re doing.
The last thing you want to do if you wanted to study abroad changes your mind because she is not comfortable with it. If she can’t wait, leave her be, but never give up on your aspirations only to appease a lady.
So many men have given up on their aspirations to assist their women to realize theirs, or have been discouraged by their women. These same ladies later dumped them. After reading this, never do it.
2. Commit a crime for her
If you can’t afford her extravagant lifestyle, don’t steal or do something dumb simply to impress her. If she truly loves you, she will accept when you are broke and will not put pressure on you to solve her financial problems.
Never let anything compel you to steal in order to please your woman because if she discovers you stole a gift for her, she may dump you, and another man will take your position.
1. Pay her school fees
Never pay for a woman’s education unless she is your wife. It is OK to assist and support her while she is in school, but paying for her whole education is a no-no. If you feel obligated to do it, don’t expect her to be forever grateful to you.
We are all human, and we evolve. Most men believe that sponsoring a girl’s education means they will be permanently indebted to them, eventually marrying her, but we’ve seen countless cases where the ladies find love elsewhere.
Many men have attempted suicide as a result of this.